Connection is the moment. It is the play, the cuddle, the conversation. It is the look, touch, trust, and presence. Attachment is magnetic. A strong attachment allows the child to run off and return, run off and return, run off and return. Again and again, the return... until the child settles into authentic independence. We must give our children consistent unconditional love. This is easier to write than do. However, it is vital to emotional well-being. True unconditional love says, You can falter, fall, and fail and still come back to me. I am here. When children have secure attachments to adult caregivers, they express confidence, joy, resilience, and steadiness. They feel free to be children. They can have friends, but they are less likely to obsess over them, depend heavily on them, and abandon their authenticity and truth, to morph into them. They play and interact and create relationships with other children, but they circle back home at the end of the day. Attachment,